My mind’s cracked open and the questions keep coming: The Communities Conference .

I spent all of Labor Day weekend at the Communities Conference at the Twin Oaks Community in Virginia.  I met new friends, with whom I discussed everything from relationships to the many alternative energy systems to consensus to family structures.  I danced and drank wine and then woke up the next morning to attend a workshop on income sharing.  I laughed deeply, learned about communities existing and yet to be, and cried during the transparency circle ‘If you really knew me’ exercise.  I left with a newfound energy and an even deeper yet more realistic commitment to community.  This weekend was a culmination of sorts of my journey from a lone progressive 16 year old overjoyed at discovering the Intentional Communities website to Lutheran Volunteer Corps to trying to create my present urban community house.  It was a magical, exhilarating few days.

And then I came home.  Home to a busy city, to interstate traffic, to chores undone and a possibly dying tree in the backyard (on top of the aspen that already died in the front, mind you).  And I found myself immediately tense, aggravated, frustrated, and then I wanted to cry.  Because arriving home after an inspiring weekend shouldn’t evoke such negative emotions, right?  I should be excited about what I experienced and motivated to live it out and continue building new relationships and furthering old ones.  But instead I’m tense, caught up in the diametric opposition between the deep intentionality and joy I felt from so many wonderful people at the Communities Conference and the distance and yet unbuilt connection of my current life.

There’s a lot to ponder, and I’m glad I have the relatively concrete point of Ben and my Mississippi River Bike tour in the not too distant future to plan around.  Because if I didn’t have a planned transition point, it wouldn’t be hard for me to imagine pulling a ‘leave it all behind and follow my joy’ as soon as possible.

In the coming months I hope to have support and conversations with those I love, and maybe even those I don’t yet know, about where my life is or should be going, what my vocation is, and how to truly balance happiness and world-changing.  I need space for discernment, and some deep consideration of my real priorities and heart longings (cue ‘Heartlines’ by Florence and the Machine).

Who knows, a year and a half from now you might find me writing from any number of places, rural intentional community, non-Western continent, or someplace else all together.

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2 thoughts on “My mind’s cracked open and the questions keep coming: The Communities Conference .

  1. When I think about what I want to do with my life, there is a large part of me that wants to walk away from modern society. Just walk away. There is no doubt in my mind, through my years of study, reflection, and observation, that our civilization is deeply flawed. It is fractured and broken. It thinks nothing of laying burdens on people that no traditional culture would tolerate. And it fails to provide for basic social needs. I know that if I were to wander into and be accepted by some isolated wandering tribe, the difference between their culture and ours would be night and day. I do not know how to find a place in this world that meets all the things I want: a sense of belonging, a sense of purpose, space to create, space to be, the need to share. I too want to help people but I also don\’t know what actions are effective. I feel like so many of us are following so many disjointed efforts. I understand the basic premise of what I seek. I know it should exist and I feel like maybe I can get there. But lately I\’ve been having days where I wake up deeply unmotivated. I\’m tired of my job and I\’m tired of how long it\’s taken me to make progress in my life. The whole process feels more difficult than I anticipated or wanted it to be. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for letting me share.

    -Aaron

    1. Thank you, Aaron- though it isn’t particularly pleasant or especially helpful to feel exhausted and unmotivated by the deep flaws and frustrations of civilization, it is good to know there are others who see things for what they are and want to create and participate in a better future, as much as such a thing is possible. I hope that both of us can find both contentment and space to create change as our lives move forward.
      ~Lauren

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