It has been an EXCEEDINGLY long time since I’ve blogged. I’ve gone through several iterations of ‘I really just hate how much time is taken up by silly technology, so I should eschew it in order to live up to some ridiculous moral standard I have arbitrarily set for myself’. But I’m getting over it. Because I really do write more when I use a computer, and have an audience, however meager and elusive it might be, holds me accountable.
So here I am. Back again. ::cue some ridiculous 80s soundtrack::
2015 has been a crazy year of becoming someone I would actually venture to say is an adult. Part of this has been by choice (setting boundaries in my committed relationships, starting a farm and business with my partner, leaving a job that was meaningful but drained me), and part of it has been completely out of my control (the sudden death of my previous partner). It’s all given me a pretty solid shake up as to what is important though, in this short life we have on this marvelous blue planet. So here’s the wisdom I’ll start my new blogging era with, things I have to remind myself of pretty much every day in order to stay reasonably happy and sane:
- Do what you love. Every day. Gently but firmly leave behind the things that don’t feed your soul.
- Practice radical self love first and foremost, so that you have the energy to be a rock for those who need it. When friends, family, and acquaintances are brave enough to reach out to you, make time for them. Very few things are as important as this.
“Instructions for living a life:
Tell about it.”